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Need some help with myUKdate? Choose one of the main topics below for answers to the most frequently asked questions:


Your Profile

How do I create a profile?

Your profile is made up of a number of different sections. We hope that you will spend a little time and fill in as much as possible. Try to provide an overview of who you are, your lifestyle, and what you are looking for in a relationship. Why wait? Create your profile today!

How do I update my profile?

To update your profile, simply enter the site by going to my profile and pick the area you would like to update. You can see how your profile is presented to other people, from this page too.

How do I change gender?

To update your profile, simply enter the site by going to my profile and pick the area you would like to update. You can see how your profile is presented to other people, from this page too.

How do I upload a picture?

If you registered the profile with the wrong membership type, please contact us with the request to let us alter it for you. Find 'Contact us' link at the bottom of the page, follow to the option "How do I amend my profile information?", pick "Gender" and finally choose the correct gender type from the drop down menu.

To upload your photo using your mobile phone please follow these simple procedures:
1. Update your profile to include your mobile phone number. You can do this by going to My Account | general and then enter your mobile number in the relevant box and chose update.
2. Take a photo with your phone or locate one you have already taken.
3. Send the photo and add the text 'MUKD' via MMS to 0781 461 2498 using the same phone you have registered with us.
4. Your photo will then be applied to your profile.

Can I put up pictures that only my friends can see?

You can post up to four pictures with myUKdate. The first one cannot be flagged for friends only.

Pictures 2 to 4 can be flagged for friends only so that you can choose who views them. You need to upload your picture first, then select "for friends only" so that the words "for friends only" appear under the heading for that picture.

How do I remove my pictures?

If for some reason you want to remove your pictures simply replace them with a suitable alternative.

If you delete your profile, or suspend your account, your pictures will be automatically removed.

How do I change my pictures?

You can change your pictures at any time by simply uploading new ones.

Once you have updated new pictures please make sure you clear your computer's cache. Otherwise, you may find that your old photographs are displayed...even though the rest of my UK date members are seeing the new pictures you have loaded. This can be done in IE from the Tools -> Internet Options -> Delete Temporary Files.

It normally takes about a day to process your pictures. We will mail you to let you know that we have received them and then again once they are loaded.

What if I do not have a digital image?

Not everyone has a scanner or digital camera, so if this is you, and you do not have a digital image, you can post us a picture. We will scan it in and upload it for you. Send your pictures to:

    Easy Date Ltd (MUKD)
    23 Manor Place
    Edinburgh
    EH3 7DX

Make sure you put your screen name on them, and if you send more than one, add which position you want to show them in (ie:1 - 4). If you want them back, please enclose a stamped addressed envelope.

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Activity

What is activity?

In the activity section, you can see who has been checking out your details. You might want to mail them back if you like the look of them. You can also see who has tried to flirt with you, perhaps while you were away from your computer.

A red asterisk indicates the last activity between you and the other person.

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Finding People

What is the difference between search and advanced search?

Search provides a list of members profiles based on the criteria you select. All members can access basic search - and get a quick list of people who exactly match the criteria they are looking for. Advanced search allows you to fine-tune your requirements you can change the settings at anytime and get an instant list of people on my UK date. Your advanced search settings are stored, so once you have found selection criteria that work for you, it is possible to use those criteria each time you come back to myUKdate.

Why do I get no results when I use advanced search?

Advanced search is based on what people enter into their own profiles. So, if you select a lot of criteria, you will only get results from people who have filled in all that information.

For example, if you put a height range in, only people who fall within that height range will be shown...if someone hasn't filled in the box to show how tall they are, they will not be included.

So...you may need to leave some sections completely blank...if something is not important to you, don't tick any boxes in that section at all - that way you will get people who simply haven't filled in that part of their profile yet.

You can change the settings as much as you want. The best way to set up the right criteria for you is to start by only including the things that are absolutely essential...then add "nice to haves" until you get a list of members that is about right for you!

How can I find members who live near me?

Make sure you have filled in your own postcode on the basic profile screen. This is never displayed to any members, but is used to "power" our location tool. If you are worried about confidentiality, just put in the outbound part of your postcode (e.g. SW6 or PE33)

Then in search plus you will be able to look for other people who live within 10, 25, 50 or a hundred miles of you.

Remember, if they haven't put in their own postcode, we can't tell where they live so you won’t be able to find them!

How can I find members who have joined recently and/or have visited the site recently
You can select people who have joined recently using the appropriate button on the site. Whatever search you use, the results will be returned to you in the order of "people who most recently visited the site".

Why do I see both men and women when I search to see who is online?

Unlike other dating sites, we recognise that many of our members like to chat to other members of the same sex.

You can carry out an online search using search and selecting only members who are online to restrict the listing to members of the opposite sex if you prefer.

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Mail

How do I send mail to someone?

Our mail service is completely confidential and discrete. You simply click on the "mail" link from search or from the profile of the person you want to contact and then write and send!

Once you have sent a mail, a copy will be put in your "sent mail" folder, so that you can see who you have written to.

I have sent mail and not had a reply - why not?

We cannot control whether another member writes back to you or not. We do hope that all our members are polite enough to say "thanks but no thanks" if they are not interested.

Can I send attachments?

No, we do not allow attachments

Can I send mail to an external email address?

No, you can only send mail to other members of myUKdate, using their screen name. If you try to send mail to an external email address it will simply disappear!

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Flirting

What is flirting?

Flirting is one of the easiest ways to get to know anyone else who is online. Simply click on the "flirting" link from search or from their profile and you can send them an instant message.

Why don't my "flirts" arrive immediately?

We recognise that it is important to allow the person you are trying to chat with enough time to finish what they are doing. So, depending on what they are already doing, your flirt message might take a little longer to arrive. A good example is a new member completing their profile. If you spot someone new, we do encourage you to chat with them...but remember they might be trying to think about what to put into their profile...so, we allow a little longer before a flirt is delivered.

What is the "tinkerbell" noise?

There is a sound alert for a flirt. You can switch it off using your computer's own sound settings.

How can I see who is flirting with me?

You can look at the profile of anyone who is flirting with you by clicking on the "eye" to browse their profile.

How can I stop someone flirting with me?

If you do not want to chat to an individual for any reason, you can block that person for as long as you want. You will then be invisible to them. To block someone, simply go to their profile and click on the block button.

To check who you have blocked go to "My Profile" and "Blocked". You can see a list of who is blocked and can "unblock" them.

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Account Status

How do I pay for membership?

Just click Payments to go to the payment page. This will show you what services we have on offer, and any special offers available.

We use Datacash to provide a secure payment process and accept all credit and debit cards. We do not hold any card details on our servers, which ensures maximum safety for your details. You can also pay by cheque or postal order. The address to send these to can be found from the payments page.

How do I see how long my membership has to run?

In the my account section, under 'My Profile' you can view your current status and when your membership expires

How can I remove my profile?

To have your Standard profile removed results in NO further email communication from EasyDate Ltd or MUKD members and your profile will no longer be visible on the website to other MUKD members.

To remove your profile access my account under 'My membership' and follow the instructions regarding 'Account Suspension'
OR
You can send an email to Customer Services by using our Contact Us

If you want to remove your profile you will need to cancel any repeat billing first. Please refer to 'How do I cancel repeat billing?'

Can I control the mail that myUKdate sends to me?

Yes. You can select the mails that you receivce form myUKdate from within the my account section, under 'My Profile'.

How do I change my email address?

Under our terms and conditions, you must provide us with a valid email address to use myUKdate. You can change this yourself instantly - click Change Email to go to My Account.

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Forgotten your Password?

If you have forgotten your password go to www.myukdate.com and select the 'lost password?' link below the section where you would normally enter your password. Then enter your Screenname and select 'Send Password Now'. You will then get your password resent to the email account registered to your profile.

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